It’s been a rough week last week. A variety of things have just piled up and for a while, it just felt like nothing was going to work out and that I had hit a wall.
Always say positive and always keep your head up, that’s what I have to remind myself. With the help of those closest to me, these hard times are made so much easier and I don’t know what I’d do without my friends. I don’t know how many times I can say that about them. I know I’m lucky.
I’ve made some changes to myself, fun ones. I now have bangs and my hair is a dark purple. I like the change a lot. It’s fun, a bit strange and barely acceptable for my job, but that’s ok. As long as they’re ok with it, then that’s all that matters! 🙂
I also had a meeting Wednesday with a local university about hosting the domestic abuse/sexual assault seminar there. I’m working with another young woman too and she is incredible. She is so knowledgeable and has so many valuable contributions to this event. It just makes everything so much easier! She is a wonderful partner for this project.
The meeting went so well, we were able to get a good deal to host the seminar there and right now we’re just waiting on a date and then I need an insurance quote (of course we need special event insurance). We decided a Saturday in October would be perfect. Saturday most people have off work, it’s in the beginning of the school year when people are really active in their university and it is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. It’s perfect!
We’re both getting really excited about it. Looking through our 7 page outline and handouts, it’s going to be so much fun to discuss these topic with people, sharing resources and information. Each time I add or edit our existing documents, each time I create another marketing strategy, my excitement just keeps building.
We want our seminar to be different from the average event. We don’t want the audience to be talked at for an hour or two and listening to really heart breaking stories. Those type of events typically attract people who are already interested in these topic or involved in the industry. We want people who aren’t already involved or who are aware but haven’t gotten involved yet to come. We want men to join in too. We laid out this seminar to be a discussion where people can ask questions and discuss DV/SA in an open, judgement free area. We want to hear people’s thoughts, opinions and questions and facilitate positive dialogue not only with each other but also (hopefully) with the administration of the university so students know where they can go for help or additional resources.
We all have to work together to solve a problem like this and I know it’s possible. I am so excited that all of this is happening. I think it’s about time I took a step like this and put myself out there. I know I can do this and if we don’t get the amount of people we’re hoping for, we can always try again! We can make a difference and by putting ourselves out there and going for it, that’s just the first step. I’m not afraid to fail because no matter what the outcome is, I don’t see it as a failure. We’ll learn how to improve what we’re doing until we get it just right.
I can’t wait for the next few weeks until everything is finalized. I’ll keep everyone posted!